Non-Traditional Engagement Party Ideas

After five years of being engaged, it’s time to pop the champagne because my fiancé Edwin and I are finally throwing an engagement party this summer! What I love most about engagement parties is that more couples are opting to create events that speak to their personalities — they can be as formal or as casual as you’d like. The real-life parties featured below have gotten my wheels turning, and I hope that they inspire your upcoming celebration as well.

1. A Sunset Cruise
I love that this couple — the bride is Jen Huang, photographer extraordinaire — celebrated their engagement on a sunset river cruise around New York City. I relate to it on a personal level because my hometown of Jacksonville, Florida is also referred to as “the river city,” but this steal-worthy idea is perfect for anyone who lives by water. Getting married by the ocean? This would be a great rehearsal dinner option as well.

bride and groom at engagement party

Tip: Activities such as a river cruise or wine tasting are a great way for guests to break the ice, since this is usually the first time that everyone on both sides of the couple’s family will be together in the same room.

engagement on a boattable setting and flowers

guests at a boat engagement party

bride wiith bridesmaids guest book
boat decor boat decor

boat engagement party


nyc skyline


nyc skyline


2. A Luxe Lounge
Our wedding will take place outdoors in Italy, so I’d like something different for our engagement party. This sexy California lounge, Pandora on Green, is just my style; I’d love to recreate this party in the heart of the South, where I live.

Tip: Cut down on costs by choosing a venue that doesn’t need rentals. If you’re lucky to be living in a metropolitan city with chic lounges, take advantage of them. They already have a stylish vibe and aesthetic, so décor will be minimal.

red and white engagement party


red and white engagement party


red white and black engagement party

lounge areared flower centerpiece

oversized mirror decor


red and white party decor


man playing guitar


buffet with red flower decoration

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bride and groom

3. A Starlit Supper
Want to throw an intimate gathering? They incorporated the Pantone color of the year, emerald, into the design, as well as glam gold accents. A streamer wall is the ultimate backdrop for your bar.

This shoot was originally featured

bride and groom on the beach

Tip: Keeping your engagement party guest list on the smaller side will reduce catering costs and allow you to go all-out with the decorations and other fun details. If this is the first time that your in-laws will be meeting, this is a great way to have a family-style dinner.

place setting at wedding
engagement party toast


4. A Rooftop Carnival
I saved my all-time favorite for last: A sophisticated party on the 38th floor of a downtown building that has left Edwin intrigued. Rooftops have become a popular choice for pre-wedding gatherings, and this al fresco party is a standout with its fun carnival theme.

bride and groom kissing during toast

Tip: Since rentals are necessary when renting a blank space, let your creativity shine and give your budget a break with a few DIY projects. The best part is that you can use this time to hone your crafting skills before your wedding day!

invitation fun carnival themed decor

table decor flowers

chair decorations

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Bonus Tip: Don’t feel pressured to go overboard with food at your engagement party. Serving just hors d’oeuvres and bite-sized treats is perfectly acceptable for a lounge-type party. Have a baker in the family or a fiancé with a major sweet tooth? Try a strolling dessert reception, but make sure to indicate this in the wording of your invitation, so that guests know they need to eat dinner prior to arriving at your party.

kate and david food

cotton candy



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